Candy Inspired Cocktails

October 13, 2015

These cocktails are perfect for an adult Halloween party. Or a "we survived trick-or-treating with a toddler" toast after the kiddos have gone to bed. 

Toblerone Cocktail (this one might be my favorite)

Blow Pop Martinis (are these not the prettiest?)

Chic Skulls

October 9, 2015

I've never been a huge fan of skulls (I was probably the only fashion writer on the planet who didn't absolutely swoon over McQueen's iconic skull scarf), but lately I've been seeing lots of chic ways to style them, and suddenly I find them slightly appealing. I have very little interest in ever wearing any skull pieces or prints, however I might look for ways to incorporate small doses into my home decor. 

Using a skull to house blooms makes a surprisingly pretty centerpiece for a Dia de los Muertos-themed dinner party.  

Painted pumpkins seem to soften the scariness of this skull.

A glam meets grunge skull is more statement piece than spooky on this coffee table vignette. 

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At first glance it's actually hard to make out that this is a skull--the colors are so bright and cheerful. 

Friday Favorites

October 9, 2015

This week, news broke that Caleb Logan, the 13-year old YouTube star of the Bratayley videos, passed away from an undetected medical condition. My heart broke for the family--his parents, sisters, and friends who will never know the feeling of his hugs again. I can't even begin to imagine what it must feel like for them, and I can't help but feel thankful that I can still kiss and hug my darling girls every day. This week I smothered them, because you just never know. I bid you a happy and healthy weekend. God bless!

This cute home office

A gold bow blouse that I'm now obsessed with. 

Caramel apple trifles

These lounge pants, which are made by women in India who have escaped human trafficking. 

Kate Winslet insisting that her wrinkles not be photoshopped out of pictures.

Teaching My Daughters to Love Their Bodies

October 8, 2015

I was called "fat" at a wedding once. I had been dating my now-husband for a little less than two years, and we were still in that blissful and spontaneous time in our love affair when we wanted to share nice bottles of wine and feed each other chocolates and try every new restaurant in Los Angeles, and I put on weight. Love weight. And as a result, a woman, a personal trainer whose weekly aerobics class I'd attended a few times, said I was fat. She didn't sugar coat it or try at all to soften the blow; just smacked me on the behind, at a wedding, and said I was fat. 

The thing is, she didn't know that I've always suffered from a poor body image. Even at my smallest, a size 4, I've never felt small enough. I started ballet at age two and quit when I was fourteen after seeing a video of myself dancing, my full bosom barely contained in my leotard. Then I went on to have a career as a fashion editor, where my curvy hourglass figure could rival that of Marilyn Monroe and Beyonce, but could never fit into the sample sizes of the garments we used for photo shoots. This woman didn't know any of that, but really, did she need to? Body shaming, even if it's meant to be in jest, is simply uncool. And now that I have two daughters of my own, with two very different body types (my soon-to-be six-year old is tiny and lean, "underweight" according to those charts at the doctor's office, while my two-year old is soft and round and delightfully squishy), it's important for me to know that they won't have the same issues I've had. It's equally important for me to know that they are capable of loving their bodies, no matter what anyone else says or thinks. Here's what I'm doing to help that process.

Taking the focus away from the physical.
My oldest is without a doubt the sweetest child I've ever met, and I never hesitate to tell her. I remind her that she has a big heart, and that that's what's important. Sure, I often gush over how beautiful both of my girls are (because what momma doesn't), but I'm conscious of  how imperative it is that I focus more on how smart, brave, strong, talented, funny, and most of all kind they are, and how proud my husband and I are of them.

Watching my mouth.
These little ones, they hear everything. After I had my second baby I remember muttering to myself once that the pants I had on made me look fat. My big girl promptly chimed in, saying, "You're not fat, momma. You look beautiful." (See what I mean about her being the sweetest?) I was crushed that she'd heard me, and I realized that if I am going to instill a positive body image in my girls, I must first learn to love my own body, cellulite and all. And even on those bad days when it seems to take more effort to zip my jeans, I need to remember that they're watching and listening (so I should just shut up and throw on a jersey dress). 

Making healthier food choices, consistently.
I'm not blind to the fact that my little ones will mimic just about everything I do, so I changed the way my family eats a few years ago when I had my oldest. I stopped shopping at major grocery stores and have cut out national brands of just about everything we eat (I am a realistic woman and realize that life is sometimes much easier with frozen Eggo waffles. And Twix.). We all have a sweet tooth, but we also eat a ton of fresh fruits and veggies. These are the healthy eating habits that they will carry with them into adulthood. 

Taking frequent dance breaks.
My little girls love to dance, so we often stop what we're doing to dance to the credits of a movie or a favorite Target commercial. Sometimes we turn up the iPod or throw in a Zumba DVD and have dance parties in the living room. Anything to get them moving and have them see me moving so they'll emulate my active lifestyle when they grow up. I want them to know that it's more important to be healthy than to achieve a certain number on the scale. 

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